Eractile Disfunctions
Who would have known that I have such a curious mind. I decided to find out what goes on in our own heads meaning us guys. Even if I am a guy I really did not know what erectile dysfunctions means in over all.
To find out how people with erectile dysfunctions feels I needed to get me really excited in over all sens. well my girlfriend helped with that to, but I got excited by making myself a little to excited but not allowing my self to finish. The goal was achieved I experienced erectile dysfunction, that is finishing to fast. That helped me to gain insight why so many guys are drawn in these insecurities.
the answer was so easy, but first I need to tell some examples why I would do something like that in the first place. I did this because I have read that a guy who finished the first time in the night always felt bad that he finished so fast. The second time was long like for most of the guys. He said to his wife if she would like to experience big dick. An answer of hears was that she would not marry a guy with a big dick but she would like it sometimes now and than. So they arranged that she gets it and returns to her husband satisfied and wet. why would a guy would do that other wise than because of his insecurities of his abilities in the bed. So where do these insecurities come from.
We can see what happened in the story above that he was alright for her to fool around because he wants her to be satisfied. Looking deeper in the issue I needed to see how girls react when a guy finish to fast. seeking for the results I found out that maybe even a girl unknowingly does it but seems like all of them do that. They look in your eyes and say that it is alright, and that you are what we( girls in general) want. Looking back in the eyes we see the disappointment's what contradict with her stated words.
Do they think it is encouraging or do they try to gain something. I don't think that guys should get worried and go so far as to allowing cheating, just because they feel they are not satisfying her in the first place. Even if the husband allowed it, it is still cheating.Thinking that all the girls are like that - hopefully not. Is it the girls fault that she brings on these insecurities definitely not, But if they chose to stay with that man they should love him and give a support and love also trying not to sent these subconscious or worse verballed messages mentioning that it was not satisfying to her. You just create an insecure men, and no girl wants that, do they. If the girls keeps staying unsatisfied even when you try your best and does not support you make helps you to feel good about yourself than maybe she is just not a one man girl, than just feel good about yourself, because you can find someone else who would be happy with you not sending these subconscious or verbal messages to you. Since in the world there are about 4 bilj girls and 2 bilj guys the ods are 2:1. there is bound to be who would like you the way you are and love and support you without judging you about who you are, not judging you subconsciously and especially consciously.

