atraction and its relationship with phones

ok for example who has not ever have called his boyfriend or girlfriend couple times in the day i my self am guilty to that . why it is bad , well lets just say attraction is build in your brains and when your brains can predict something it becomes boring so if you stop calling every day and talk for long time on the phone you allow your second half to miss you and one more advice do not talk about weather,unless you gonna go to the beach it is as boring as it could be